Singapore and China established formal diplomatic relations in 1990. Since then, this city state has attracted more and more Chinese nationals. I was one of those who sought a better career path and life in Singapore, so I said farewell to my aged parents in China and flew here in 1997.
On my first day of work here, my boss asked me: 'Why do you China people come to Singapore? You cannot find a job there?'
I replied: 'No, I had a wonderful job there, but working overseas would be a different challenge.'
My boss just shook his head and stared at me suspiciously.
I was 29 then, and strongly believed that taking a chance in Singapore would enrich my life.
As there were not so many foreigners then, I really felt lonely at times. I could not understand Singlish and kept trying to get used to it. I called my friends in China and they encouraged me to learn as much as I could, and not to give up. I am grateful for their support. Without them, I would not be successful today.
My boss and Singaporean colleagues also started showing me more respect when they saw that business clients liked and praised my work.
On my birthday, all the staff celebrated it with me in the office, and used their own money to buy me a fantastic present: an Alba watch. Though I quit this job a year later, their kindness will always stay with me.
I no longer find Singlish strange - it is beautiful. It is the essence of Singapore's multiracial culture and I love it.
I had always dreamt of being granted Singapore citizenship. I applied for it in 2006 and got it. My dream is now a reality, Singapore is now my home.
I wish all foreigners here a pleasant stay, regardless of race, age or status. Hard work and a willingness to learn will win them a good life here later.
