Some Chinese wives buy sex dolls for their husbands

Some Chinese wives buy sex dolls for their husbands

BEIJING - She lay quietly on a narrow bed, greeting potential customers with an impassive stare and a disproportionately buxom form: meet "156", a stand-in companion for Chinese men with empty beds.

Named for her height, she is a high-quality sex doll made of thermoplastic elastomer, a rubbery material softer than silicone, with adjustable hands, a removable head and genitals, and available from specialist shops in Beijing for around US$2,500.

Liu - who did not want to give his full name - has one among the few possessions in his dimly lit studio apartment, deep in an industrial suburb of the capital.

Like millions in China who leave their hometowns to work in the cities, the 29-year-old automobile designer leads a bachelor's life during the week, returning to his wife and toddler in neighbouring Hebei province every weekend.

Liu has been married for more than a decade, and does not want to be unfaithful, but still needs to satisfy his sexual appetites.

"Honestly, it is very easy to just pay a little money to find a woman in China, but I simply cannot bring myself to cheat on my wife, so I have never considered it," he said with a nervous laugh.

But a blow-up alternative was not an option. "There was no way I would have sex with that kind of cheap inflatable plastic," he explained.

Instead he forked out 15,800 yuan, almost a month's pay, for his more realistic Chinese-made "156".

Her removable parts make cleaning or replacement easier, but despite lengthy prior research - Liu can explain subtle differences between an exhaustive list of Chinese and foreign doll brands - he was disappointed.

"As an industrial designer I can't neglect the lack of realistic details," he lamented. "So I just used it a few times."

"The only way a doll is better than a woman is that it won't resist, so people can do whatever they want with it," he added.

Gender imbalance

Liu bought his doll from Micdolls in Beijing, where salesman Yi Jiange said proudly: "Most people think the dolls are more attractive than real women."

They come bald, with customers buying wigs for them according to their own preferences.

Some models are also significantly shorter - more akin to child-size - than "156", for "convenience" according to Yi.

His clients - whose needs and preferences he discusses over a cup of tea - are usually professionals or business owners in their 30s and 40s, and he praises them as morally upright.

"If a married man refuses to see prostitutes and uses a doll instead, isn't it admirable?"

Buyers include user's wives, claimed Yi, but he admitted that many clients' partners "don't quite accept" such dolls.

"My own girlfriend doesn't agree with my work that much either," he added.

China's puritanical Communist Party decried decadence during its first decades in power, and while conservative attitudes are still widespread, economic reforms have brought the country more sexual freedom, and a plethora of sex shops.

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