Where did the friendship go?

Where did the friendship go?

Dear Thelma,

I’m in my late 20s. My boyfriend K proposed to me and I’m still not clear on this.

K is my friend V’s nephew and ex-boyfriend. They were in love for a few years but because of a few incidents, both families are not talking to each other anymore.

V said K tried to hurt her and her family found out. Nevertheless, K and V are still in contact secretly.

My troubles started five years ago when I began receiving non-stop phone calls from K. I picked up the calls thinking they might be an emergency, but K ended up proposing to me. I told him it was ridiculous and not to disturb me again.

I felt really bad about it and told V about it after her exams. After that, I tried to contact V many times but go no response. Instead, she told everyone that I love K and that he proposed to me because he wanted to take revenge on her.

I can’t change my number or report this to my family as they are very strict and won’t accept this kind of situation.

My friend V has cut me off just like that for being honest with her. V didn’t even ask me what really happened. K, on the other hand, told me that he is serious about his feelings for me.

I went through hell on earth and no one was there for me. Since I had to solve this on my own, I told K that we would be friends first.

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