HIS online declaration was straightforward - 'I'm gay.'

But it was no ordinary blog.

It was written by a 38-year-old teacher at one of Singapore's top boys' schools.

He claims it was only meant to be read by his colleagues and some friends.

But somehow word spread and it got online forums buzzing.

The school, however, is not over-reacting to the teacher's honest and sober admission.

And this is why we are not naming him or his school.

As more people learnt of it, the teacher removed the post - just two days after he wrote it on 8 Sep.

In the entry, the teacher said he was inspired to come out of the closet and write openly about his sexuality after attending a forum on gay teachers and students.

UNCOMFORTABLE

In an e-mail statement to The New Paper, a spokesman for his school said it is 'mindful of the views of (the school's) stakeholders, especially parents who would not be comfortable with placing their children under the charge of a teacher who advocates homosexuality.'

The spokesman confirmed that the school had spoken to the teacher concerned.

'In this instance, (the teacher) intended the blog to be read only by his colleagues and friends.

'He has clarified that he had no intention of advocating homosexuality to students. Thus, he did not give the link to any of his students.

'However, now that he is aware that some students have been reading his blog, he has decided to take down the blog.'

The reaction of the local Internet community has been mixed.

Former students and other netizens have left messages on his blog and on other websites, many in support of his decision to go public about his sexual orientation.

In the original blog post, the teacher recalled having felt attracted to classmates of the same sex from the time he was in Primary 6.

He wrote: 'As a teenager, I was very quick to sense society's aversion towards the 'sissies' in my classes. I worked hard to distance myself from them.

'While I was successful in modifying my outward behaviour, my sexual orientation remained unchanged.

'My denial gnawed at me, and the suppression of my true self resulted in self-destructive behavior during my overseas university years.'

He 'spent more than 20 years in the professional closet', keeping his sexual orientation under wraps to all but a 'handful' of colleagues.

Explaining his decision to speak openly about his sexuality, the teacher wrote: 'Being in the closet, pretending to be straight, trimming our true selves to suit the whims and expectations of others, is just like being a human bonsai tree.'

He also wrote: 'I am still a teacher.

'My main purpose and joy is to teach our youngest citizens, the same ones who will be the leaders of our nation tomorrow.'

NOT SEXUAL DEVIANT

The teacher also said being gay did not make him a sexual deviant.

'I'm not, as some people like to label gays, a paedophile, a child molester, a pervert or sexual deviant.'

While some have voiced support for the teacher's online confession, others say he should have kept the information private.

A student from another school, Jasper Chen, 18, said he admired the teacher's honesty and courage.

'He risked losing his job in an attempt to transform the public's perception of gays in the teaching profession,' he said.

Parents like Mrs Catherine Gasper, 48, however, were less enthusiastic about the teacher's candour.

'He should keep such things private - I don't think it's our business to know about his personal life,' said Mrs Gasper, who has a son in Primary 5.

'It (his sexual orientation) doesn't really matter, as long as he's a good teacher - but parents will likely become wary because they don't know enough about the gay community.

'There's a lack of awareness that comes from a lack of contact with (gays), so people will tend to go along with their own biases and prejudices.'

Added one secondary school teacher, who declined to be named: 'In this case, the teacher is in contact with boys who are still young and impressionable.

'Their sexual preferences may still be somewhat unclear and in flux, so it's probably best that the teacher doesn't reveal too much, too soon.

'There is a line that must be drawn between a person's public and personal life.'