'Friend' your maid on Facebook? Think again

'Friend' your maid on Facebook? Think again

SINGAPORE - Employers generally don't mind their maids going online in their free time and using social media such as Facebook in the right manner.

What bothers them is that some maids abuse the trust and end up posting either naughty photos or those that reveal details of their employer's home and family. Advance Link's Mrs Winnie Wang confirms that most employers are flexible.

"Some just restrict the use to weekends, which I feel is quite reasonable. This will help to prevent social problems and also prevents maids getting addicted to using their phones," she says.

Mr Gary Chin, managing director of Nation Employer, says it's fine for employers to add their maids as Facebook friends but admits that he generally discourages it especially for first-time maids.

He explains: "There's no harm being friends, but some employers may feel uncomfortable that they have crossed the line and gone from boss to friend.

"The maids too may feel just as awkward and they may want to vent their unhappiness over some issues but cannot because they don't want their employers to come across such postings on Facebook."

Mrs Wang agrees: "The blurred lines can make it difficult and it may then result in the maid setting up another account to hide from the employer. When she gets found out, the employer will get even more upset."

Twenty out of 30 employers randomly polled say they started out being friends with their maids on Facebook.

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