'I'm so tired, I'm sorry': Palembang dad who allegedly kills his family and himself

Businessman Fransiskus Xaverius Ong and his wife Margereth Yentin Liana. Mr Ong is believed to have killed his wife and two children before killing himself.
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PALEMBANG - A Palembang father who allegedly shot dead his family and pet dogs before ending his own life left two notes saying that he was "so tired", but loved his "wife and children" and that he "could not afford to leave them alone in this world".

In a rare suspected murder-suicide case that has shaken the South Sumatra capital, 45-year-old businessman Fransiskus Xaverius Ong, known by his colleagues as a "family man", is believed to have killed his 43-year-old wife Margereth Yentin Liana, his 18-year-old son Rafael Fransiskus, and 11-year-old daughter Kathlyn Fransiskus.

The four bodies were cremated on Friday (Oct 26), with the ashes scattered on the Musi River on Saturday morning.

The murder took place at the family's residence in Kalidoni district, Palembang, South Sumatra, in the wee hours of Wednesday morning.

Witnesses said Ong had given clues on what he was planning to do the night before he killed his family and pet dogs, Choky and Snowy.

Ong, according to one of the housemaids, was drinking coffee while playing the piano at around 8pm on Tuesday. The housemaid, identified only as Ms Dewi, told the police that Ong only played the piano when he "was having a problem".

She said that he did something unusual later that night. He called on every employee working for his company as well as the housemaids to gather for a meeting at his residence, and he reportedly gave them some money.

At 3am on Wednesday, he sent a message to his high school WhatsApp group asking for their forgiveness and for them to remember his good deeds only. One of the confused group members replied: "What are you blabbering about at 3am in the morning?"

The following morning, Ms Sarah, the other housemaid, was shocked when she tried to wake Kathlyn up for school.

"My sister Sarah saw blood on the pillow when she tried to wake Kathlyn up," Ms Dewi said, as quoted by kompas.com. "At first, she thought it was simply a nosebleed, but then she saw that the blood was coming from Kathlyn's head."

The housemaids then rushed to the parents' room to tell them what they had just found, but the door was locked and their calls were met with silence.

They then decided to call for help from the neighbours and the police, only to find out that all the family members had been shot to death.

South Sumatra Police chief Inspector-General Zulkarnain Adinegara said that, according to autopsy results and scientific investigation, Ong had carefully planned the murders.

"Based on (the findings) of gunshot residue analysis, it was revealed that Fransiskus was the one who pulled the trigger," he said on Friday.

According to the police investigation, Ong first shot his wife in their bedroom. He then paused for a while, sat outside the room and lit a cigarette.

"We found cigarette butts partly covered in blood, as well as coffee stains outside the bedroom. We assume he smoked a cigarette and thought about his actions before proceeding to murder his children," Inspector-General Zulkarnain said.

Ong then allegedly went to his son's bedroom on the second floor and shot him in the head while he was asleep. The last victim was his daughter, who, like her brother, was allegedly shot from close range, according to the police.

None of the maids claimed to have heard gunshots.

Police believe that after killing his wife and children, Ong killed the family dogs by drowning them in the bathtub, after which he returned to his bedroom, locked the door and shot himself.

The police have yet to find a clear motive behind the murder-suicide, but they suspect that it was triggered by a fight between Ong and his wife, who demanded a divorce over allegations that her husband was having an affair.

The only other clue they have about a possible motive is in the suicide notes left by Ong.

The suicide notes left by Fransiskus Xaverius Ong, 45, read, “I’m so tired, I’m sorry […]” and “I love my wife and children very much [as well as family dogs] Choky and Snowy. I can’t afford to leave them alone in this world.”​Photo: The Jakarta Post/Asia News Network

The notes read: "I'm so tired, I'm sorry…" and "I love my wife and children very much (as well as family dogs) Choky and Snowy. I can't afford to leave them alone in this world".

"He didn't want to die alone. That's why he also murdered his entire family," Inspector-General Zulkarnain said.

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