Now that you know that constant stress will do you no good - perhaps even aggravate the situation and make you feel physically sick and depressed - your only option is to hang loose.
If you are too preoccupied with your current situation to figure out how to do this, take these 40 tips from medical professionals Mind Your Body consulted.
They give advice on how to unwind, lessen physical strain and mental stress and tell you how you can relax.
Ms Sanveen Kang, a clinical psychologist at the Institute of Mental Health, said: 'Never dismiss stress; instead, learn to cope and tackle the problems one by one.'
Her other tips:
1. Seek help. Talk to a friend, family member, co-worker, counsellor, psychologist or someone you trust.
2. Focus on what you have accomplished and derive a sense of satisfaction from it.
3. Do not dwell on work that is incomplete as it will only demoralise you.
4. Do stretches in the office to relieve tension accumulated from sitting down for a long time.
5. Exercise regularly.
- It helps with sleep problems and improves blood circulation and detoxification through perspiration.
- Exercise has been shown to release a chemical in the brain which induces the feeling of well-being and relaxation.
6. Enrol in stress management talks, workshops and programmes.
7. Go travelling with your loved ones as it can help you return with a fresh perspective on life.
Dr Gregory Chan, a senior occupational health physician at the National University of Singapore, said: 'Relaxing in the workplace is not only about things you can do but also an attitude with which you approach work.'
His other tips:
8. Draw up a list of items that you need to finish at work at the beginning of the day.
9. You can choose to be happy and positive at work. For example, smile more and respond positively to new assignments.
10. Focus on the job at hand.
11. Do not keep checking your e-mail every few minutes; it will distract you.
12. Make sure your work station is comfortable and adjusted to your personal needs.
- The screen should be at eye level.
- Adjust the chair so that your elbows rest comfortably on the chair and your feet are flat on the ground.
- Do not sit on the edge of your chair.
- Get some back support.
13. Keep your desk free of clutter and tidy up after work.
14. Avoid gossiping about others.
15. Be friendly to everyone (but do not overdo it).
16. Listen to some soothing music without disturbing your colleagues.
17. Take short breaks after continuous work; you should not do more than one hour of continuous work.
18. Tell your body to relax while working; it is about mind over body.
- Check if you are tense because you tend to use muscles that are not necessary in the course of work.
19. Learn to say 'no' if you have far too much to do already.
20. Have regular meals to avoid gastric problems and squeeze in some exercise no matter how short.
- For example, take the stairs instead of the lift.
21. Try not to bring work home.
22. Ensure that you drink enough fluids - water is best but not fizzy or alcoholic drinks.
23. Do not be overly preoccupied with promotion or competition.
24. Even if your work seems boring, look for positive aspects and enjoy working.
25. Give your best effort at work.
Find easy going things
Psychologist Daniel Koh of Insights-Tse counselling clinic said: 'Find more sedentary and easy going things to do as exercise may vent frustration but may not mean you will be more relaxed.'
His other tips:
26. Breathing exercises. These can be done with your eyes open or closed and either sitting or lying down.
- Begin by placing your hand on your diaphragm and breathe in slowly and deeply.
- When exhaling, imagine that you are breathing out all your tension and troubles.
- Repeat until you feel calm and relaxed.
27. Imagery or visualisation.
- Start with the above breathing exercise but add on visualisation.
- Imagine that you are walking in a forest or along a beach. Think about how you would feel and what you would see or hear. When you begin to feel relaxed, start focusing on your breathing.
28. Muscle relaxation. Again start with your breathing, then focus on the major muscle groups from head to toe.
- For example, clench your jaw and hold it for a few seconds then relax.
- Repeat this a few times, then move on to your mouth (tense it up and relax), neck (tilt it upwards and backwards, hold and relax), shoulder (lift it up towards your neck), then arms, chest, abdomen, thighs, calves, toes and end with breathing.
- Breathing and muscle exercises slow down the pace of breathing which helps regulate the heart beat and relaxes the body.
- They also take the mind off thoughts that are causing stress.
Group or alone?
Psychiatrist Brian Yeo of Mount Elizabeth Medical Centre said: 'Some people relax better in a group while others are more comfortable relaxing alone.'
His other tips:
29. Take long walks or laze on a beach.
30. Join a line dancing class or start running. Both do not require a partner so they are easier to pick up.
31. If you are a spiritual person, go to an empty church or temple and have some quiet time for reflection.
- Meditate regularly; it enables you to calm down faster when it becomes a routine for your body.
- It also increases the flow of pleasure hormones and raises the threshold of stress a person can cope with.
32. Vegetate on the couch; the concept of relaxation seems to entail an activity but sometimes being a couch potato for a short time is not a bad thing.
33. Join a yoga or pilates class or do yoga at home with videos.
34. Go for a massage or facial.
Do what you love daily
Mr Stephen Lew, a psychotherapist from the Positive Psychology Centre, said: 'Do what you love daily. If you have yet to develop an interest, this could be the time of self-discovery to cultivate a new hobby which you get pleasure from.'
His other tips:
35. Sift through old photographs - an occasion that was full of fun could trigger joyous emotions locked in your memory.
36. Walk alongside trees in the Botanical Gardens or get yourself close to nature; this helps to soothe frazzled nerves.
37. Pick up a dusty phone book to touch base with old friends and chuckle away at the foolish things you used to do.
38. Take a siesta, or as they say, a power nap (20 minutes) to recharge.
39. Sit on a chair with your feet touching the floor and your back upright. Focus on anything or any sound for three minutes.
40. As you step into your home after a long day at work, just sit for 10 to15 minutes doing nothing. Do some deep breathing and reflect on the day's challenges.
This article was first published in Mind Your Body, The Straits Times.
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