'I found out my husband had cybersex with another woman'

"While trying to find an old t-shirt to clean our flat with, I dived into a pile of my fiance's clothes in the corner of our bedroom, and came across bank statements from an account I wasn't aware of. The transactions showed hundreds of dollars deposited into a well-known escort agency.

I felt so numb. I couldn't even cry. I sat on our bed, staring into space, playing the past five years of our relationship in my head - had there been signs? Maybe he hadn't had sex with these women?

I confronted him two nights later at our home. He denied everything. After hours of discussion, sobbing, anger and lies, he admitted he'd been sleeping with escorts for the past year and also having cybersex with women over a videocam.

He claimed he couldn't remember how many, and that he 'thought I knew'. I was physically sick in the bathroom before I walked out. I kept my engagement ring but I never went back to him."

*Heng Wai Ling, 30

*Names have been changed.

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