Childbirth: A Guide for First-Time Mothers | Health Plus

Giving birth for the first time is a life-changing and often overwhelming experience. And when it comes to your birth plan, it can be hard to know where to start.

This guide breaks down various delivery options as well as their benefits and risks so you can get a better sense of how to prepare and what to expect when you go into labour.

Always speak to a gynaecologist for professional advice on what the best option is for you!

Vaginal delivery

What happens if I give birth vaginally?

Vaginal delivery
In a typical vaginal delivery, you’ll experience all the early stages of labour. The amniotic sac, which is a fluid-filled membrane cocooning your baby in the womb, may burst first. The clear, odourless liquid that comes out is described as your ‘water breaking’.

Alternatively, you may experience vaginal bleeding first, which is usually accompanied with a mucus-like vaginal discharge.

You may first begin to experience contractions (intermittent tightening and releasing of your uterus, which may feel like heavy cramping or pressure moving from your back to front). Your cervix, the tube which connects your uterus to the vagina, will also begin to dilate (open). ‘True’ labour technically begins when you experience one contraction every 2 – 3 minutes, and when your cervix is dilated 3cm or more.

Eventually, when the cervix has dilated enough, your baby will pass into the birth canal. You will likely feel a burning sensation and intense pressure as you push. You can opt for an epidural (for pain relief during labour) if you want to reduce the level of pain.

Once the baby’s head has emerged, your doctor or nurse may remove the amniotic fluid out of the baby’s mouth and nose so they can breathe properly before you resume pushing.

After your baby has arrived (yay!), you will need to deliver the placenta, the organ that developed during pregnancy, to help nourish your baby in the uterus. Sometimes this happens spontaneously, and sometimes your doctor may need to rub your abdomen to help detach it.

Can I give birth vaginally?

You should be able to plan for vaginal childbirth unless your doctor advises against it. This sometimes happens if you have a pre-existing health condition such as high blood pressure as it could lead to complications during the birth.

There’s also the chance your birth plan will change unexpectedly. With vaginal childbirth, your baby will ideally be in the right position (head first, with face turned towards your back) before entering the birth canal. But of course, it’s not always as easy as that! There’s a chance your baby will be facing the wrong way, or pushing against the canal bottom first. If your doctor can’t redirect your baby’s position, they may have to perform an unplanned caesarean section to help ensure a safe delivery.

What are the benefits and risks of giving birth vaginally?

Vaginal childbirth is often a long and exhausting process. But on the upside, it usually leads to a shorter hospital stay and shorter recovery time than with a C-section.

It’s very common to experience tears in your vagina after giving birth vaginally. In most cases, these tears are minor and can easily be repaired, but occasionally they can lead to weaker pelvic muscles and problems with bowel or urinary incontinence. Speak to your doctor if you have concerns about the risks of vaginal delivery.

Caesarean section (C-section)

What happens if I have a C-section?

Caesarean section
A C-section refers to the surgical delivery of your baby. If you need to have a C-section, your doctor will make a low horizontal incision in your abdomen and uterus to deliver your baby. To numb your lower body, you’ll be given either:

  • A spinal block, which is injected into the sac surrounding your spinal cord
  • An epidural, which is injected into your lower back, or
  • General anaesthetic to put you into a painless sleep

After a C-section, you’ll probably need to stay in the hospital for around 3 days to recover. Then you’ll probably need a couple of weeks at home to rest.

Can I have a C-section?

Doctors will usually only advise having a caesarean if there’s a health reason behind it. But you can also elect to have a C-section if that feels right for you.

Your doctor may also recommend a C-section if giving birth vaginally would put you or your baby at risk. Some of the reasons why you might need a C-section include:

  • Your baby’s head is too big for the birth canal
  • Your baby is in the wrong position
  • You have a health condition, such as high blood pressure or heart disease
  • You have active genital herpes
  • You have already had a C-section previously
  • There’s a problem with the umbilical cord or placenta
  • Your labour has stalled

What are the benefits and risks of having a C-section?

A C-section is often more predictable than a vaginal birth, but it is also a major surgery, so it’s not surprising it comes with some risks. These include:

  • Bleeding
  • Increased risks for future pregnancies
  • Infection
  • Injury to the child during surgery
  • Injury to surrounding organs like the bladder

If your doctor has advised you to have a C-section, it’s because they believe it will be a safer, healthier option for you and your baby. Speak to your doctor if you have any concerns.

Can I give birth vaginally after having a C-section?

It’s often possible to have a vaginal birth after C-section (VBAC), but there are a lot of factors involved, so you’ll need to discuss it with your doctor before you decide if it’s right for you.

One big factor is your scar. If your previous C-section was an emergency and resulted in a vertical scar, there’s a high risk of this bursting during labour. If, however, your scar is horizontal and low on your tummy, VBAC is more likely to be possible.

Bear in mind that if you have high blood pressure during pregnancy (pre-eclampsia), you’re older than 35 or your body mass index is 30 or higher, your doctor will probably recommend that you don’t have a VBAC.

Vacuum-assisted delivery

What happens if I have vacuum-assisted delivery?

Vacuum-assisted delivery
With vacuum-assisted delivery, you’ll experience all of the same early labour symptoms as a traditional vaginal birth. The difference will be when your baby is in the birth canal. Once your cervix is properly dilated, your doctor will use a vacuum device, which features a soft cup to attach to your baby’s head, to guide your baby out the canal.

Can I have vacuum-assisted delivery?

If your baby’s descent is delayed and you’re exhausted from pushing for several hours, your doctor may recommend you to try vacuum-assisted delivery. It’s also an option if you have a medical condition like high blood pressure or heart disease, but want to avoid having a C-section.

What are the benefits and risks of vacuum-assisted delivery?

Vacuum-assisted delivery is a valuable option if your labour lasts for too long, or if your baby is in distress. However, it does come with some risks. You may notice some minor swelling or even small superficial cuts on your baby’s scalp after vacuum-assisted delivery. More rarely, vacuum-assisted delivery can trigger internal bleeding.

But don’t panic – your doctor will carry out all the necessary precautions and check carefully that your baby is in the right position to minimise these risks before using the vacuum device.

Forceps delivery

What happens if I have a forceps delivery?

Forceps delivery
Forceps are medical tools that look a bit like oversized salad tongs. Your doctor will use them to gently grip your baby’s head and guide them out of the birth canal. You’ll need to lie on your back on a slight incline with your legs spread apart for your doctor to insert the forceps and locate the baby’s head. When you push, your doctor will gently guide your baby downwards. This is an alternative to vacuum-assisted delivery.

Forceps can also be used to rotate your baby’s head if it’s stuck in the wrong position.

Can I have forceps delivery?

Your doctor will usually only recommend forceps delivery if you need help during the birth. This can happen if your baby isn’t travelling down the birth canal as expected, or if you’re struggling to push.

What are the benefits and risks of forceps delivery?

Forceps delivery can help to deliver your baby quickly and safely if they are stuck or in distress. However, much like vacuum-assisted delivery, there’s also the risk of the forceps causing superficial injuries or more serious damage to your baby’s head. Occasionally, forceps can also cause issues for you, such as short-term incontinence or weakened pelvic muscles.

The most important thing to remember is that you can’t predict what your delivery will be like. No matter your preferences, sometimes a C-section, vacuum-assisted delivery or forceps delivery is unavoidable. But there is something you can do in advance. The best way to prepare for childbirth without complications is to aim for a healthy pregnancy.

Follow your doctor’s recommendations and try to stay calm and relaxed, even when labour starts. And remember: you’ve got this!

If you’ve more questions on pregnancy or childbirth types, make an appointment with an O&G specialist.


Article contributed by  Dr Crystal Chin, obstetrician & gynaecologist at Mount Elizabeth Novena Hospital


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